Wedding Bar: Open Bar vs. Beer and Wine vs. Dry — The Full Cost Breakdown

The Bar Math

Alcohol is one of the largest and most variable wedding expenses. Here's the full breakdown:

• Open bar (full liquor): $25-$75 per person
• Beer and wine only: $15-$35 per person
• Beer, wine, and one signature cocktail: $20-$45 per person
• Dry wedding: $0 (or minimal cost for non-alcoholic alternatives)

For 100 guests, the difference between an open bar and beer-and-wine-only is $1,000-$4,000.

The Signature Cocktail Option

Here's what actually works for most couples: beer, wine, and one signature cocktail. It feels festive, it's personal, and it costs 30-40% less than a full open bar.

The signature cocktail can be named after the couple, themed to the wedding, or simply a drink you both love. It becomes a talking point and a memory.

The Dry Wedding

A dry wedding is completely appropriate if it reflects your values, your religion, or your guests. The key is to make the non-alcoholic options genuinely good — a mocktail bar, interesting juices, sparkling water with fruit — so guests feel celebrated, not deprived.

If you're choosing a dry wedding primarily to save money, be honest with yourself about whether your guests will feel that. If they will, consider beer and wine as a compromise.